Sunday, June 7, 2009

Seven Ways to Get Your Ex Boy Back

If you recently broke up with your boyfriend, you probably feel a lot of pain in your heart and wondering how to get your ex boy back. If you think there is no way to get your ex back you are wrong. There are things that you can do to get your ex boy back into your life, even if you had a really bad breakup. Here are some of the top ways to get your ex boy back.

1. First of all, get control of your emotions and your pain before even you are trying to get your ex back.This is not an easy thing, but if you are going to work things out, you are going to have to get beyond that pain.

2. You must improve yourself, because this is the great way for you if you want to get your ex boy back. If you want to make your ex boyfriend to be impressed, surprise him and make him feel that you are better than before. But stay yourself! You don't need to change to another person so you could impress him.

3. Be aware your relationship breakup and then correct the mistakes. It is important that you understand why you split up if you want to get your ex boy back. You can't have relationship with your ex if there are
the same problems you had before. So take your time and believe in your abilities.

4. If you want to get your ex boy back, then you will need to keep contacts with him, but stay at minimum. This will be very hard for you, if you break up recently, but you must be strong and keep contacts to a minimal over the few weeks in the beginning.

5. Go out and have a great time. Just because you broke up doesn't mean you need to sit at home and be depressive. If you really want to get your ex boy back, you will have to avoid depression and needs. So, go out and have fun. It will be great for your spirit and if your ex will see you somewhere outside and saw that you have a great time, he will be very curious because of this.

6. Avoid chasing and stalking your ex boyfriend, because this is the quickest way to drive him away from you.

7. Make your ex boyfriend come to you. One of the best ways to get your ex boy back is to let him come to you. More than likely he'll come around sooner or later. Just letting him be the one to make the first move is important and when you do see each other, keep it light and friendly in the beginning.

By Mitja Drame